As a Medium, I cannot dictate who comes through from spirit. Spirit has its own way and plans for who's visiting; I can't change that. However, most of the time, we do hear from who we want to.
It's important to know that communicating with spirit isn't as simple as you and me sitting here talking. There are no conversations, no dialogue, no words and no voices. If you hear me say, "She's telling me this…" it's simply a presentation style – but generally, no words are being spoken to me. Spirit will show me things, have me feel things, know things, or hear things in the form of internal thought, and it's my job to interpret what those things mean and present them to you. But you are still part of this process. The more you can understand and validate them, the stronger my connection will be.
So please allow yourself to be emotional and vulnerable because it will make this experience much more meaningful. Most of the time, our family and friends come through from the other side. But occasionally, you can have someone connected to you in a different way come through. For example, if you have a colleague at work, a friend, or a sister-in-law who lost someone, this is fair game for those loved ones in spirit to come through to give a message to them. But not to worry, because if someone like that does come through, you won't be able to validate very much about them, and we won't stay with them long. It is normal if something comes from spirit that you can't place right away. In my experience, if something in a reading doesn't make sense or can't be validated, it can usually be placed at a later time when someone else in their life can validate it for them.
There are no hard and fast rules. We hear from who we need to hear from and not necessarily who we want to hear from. Spirit is connecting because it has information it wants to share.
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